Frequently asked questions

What is a high conflict divorce coach?

A Highly Certified Divorce Coach (HCDC) is uniquely trained and certified to serve as your strategic ally and dedicated advocate throughout the divorce process. HCDCs possess refined skills in standard divorce coaching while also possessing specialized expertise to navigate complex or unconventional divorce cases with precision and effectiveness.

What does domestic abuse have to do with divorce?

Domestic abuse is a pattern of behavior in which a person uses power & control over another person to cause harm. In high conflict divorce, legal proceedings become a tool for the abusive person. See the Post Separation Abuse Wheel on the Resources page for further info.

What do we cover in a session?

During our sessions, we prioritize your needs by asking you to identify your top three areas of focus beforehand through a simple form. This ensures that our time together is tailored to address your specific concerns with precision and effectiveness.

How do we meet?

We offer the convenience of Zoom sessions, accessible via a simple link that can be opened directly in your browser, eliminating the need for any downloads. Alternatively, if you prefer, we can conduct sessions over the phone. Your comfort and safety are our top priorities.

How does coaching work?

Coaching sessions are conducted either over the phone or via Zoom, providing flexibility and convenience. Our aim is to empower you to confidently navigate the complexities of the family court system and develop a robust strategy for your case. Through the provision of resources, real-life examples, and an objective perspective, I support you in making informed decisions throughout your journey.

What do I do if I have been accused of Parental Alienation?

If you've been accused of Parental Alienation, it can be an incredibly distressing experience. This accusation arises when the high-conflict parent alleges that the other is hindering contact or relationship-building opportunities with the child.

At ALAS, we understand the gravity of such accusations. Parental Alienation is a discredited theory often used as a tool by abusers. Rest assured, we're here to offer direct guidance and strategic support to effectively counter these harmful claims in court.

Do you only work with clients who are divorcing?

No. I assist individuals at various stages of separation, from contemplating it to navigating life post-divorce. My services extend to those who have never been married or don't have children as well. High-conflict situations can arise in diverse circumstances, and I'm here to support you regardless of your background or current situation.

Is it confidential?

Absolutely! Your privacy is paramount. Everything discussed in our sessions remains strictly confidential, ensuring a safe and trusting environment for open communication and support.